Here’s a little something I posted on Facebook this morning. I think we can relate to this.

Based on my experiences and seeing it happen to others, I often wonder why people say the following: “Yes, I’m going to do that for you” or “Sure, I’ll help you” or “Let me know what I can do to support you.” Then when the moment comes, they are ghost; they can’t be bothered. Better yet, they don’t have the time. Meanwhile, we bend over backwards to help others the best way we can – even when we have no time. Why pretend to commit to something when you are fully aware that you have no intentions of doing so? Don’t make promises or commitments you cannot keep. 

I’m sure many of us have committed to or promised certain things, but due to unforeseen circumstances, couldn’t follow through. That is understandable. However, when the break of commitments and promises continue to occur over and over again, then it goes beyond comprehension. It turns into the mere fact that certain people are all talk and no action. But, when they want or need something, we tend to bend our backs for them; we give them our time – even if you don’t have it.

I had to post this because I am seeing this type of behavior way too often in many aspects of my life and in the lives of others. And frankly, I find it senseless and disrespectful. Commitments should be taken seriously, not lightly. If you are unsure if you can maintain or come through with a promise, just say “I’ll try my best.” At least we know there is a 50/50 chance you may or may not come through for the person. Remember, when you make a promise or commitment to someone, you are sending this person hopes and positive expectations. They are actually waiting for you to come through for them.